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so, about 6 months almost a year ago, my mom gets a job. my parents had been living together for ~20 years, happily married.
well, my mom "falls in love" with her rich boss man. so, my dad finds out about it and tells her to leave. so he kicks her out. next thing i know, my mom has an appartment, her boyfriend pays for the shit. my dad has my sister and brother living with him, so my mom files a restraining order, stating that he verbally threatened her, and that she was in fear for her life. (didnt happen) so, the judge passes the restraining order, my dad has to move out of our old house, live in our shop, pay rent bills and $200 a week child support for 1 year until the order is up. so, because of this, my dad didnt have the money to keep the our shop(had it for 2 years) and the asshole car dealer guys rent it out from under us. (cant blame em its buisness) so, we get a smaller house my dad gets a job and me to, to pay the bills caus were not makeing near what we were with the shop. so finnally tax time comes around, and sweet maybe we will get a little ahead. so my dad figures best thing to do is file jointly, so that the governtment cant take out anything because of child support being owed on record. so, my dad went and did that, but my mom had to sign to. so she calls my dad, and she said shes not signing until my dad signs an uncontested devorce, she gets custody, $200 a week child support and whatever else she wants, otherwise my dad has to file solo. since he signed solo, the government took all the money. and, the fucked up thing is we NEEDED that money for the bills, so now i might end up homeless..... and i have a storage unit of valuables thats going to go down the drain.


my lifes fucked..... mad.gif dry.gif


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im just letting off some steam....







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Edited by rexsk8er, 15 January 2008 - 12:47 PM.


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dude that sucks
i am sorry that it happened
i would help but i am in a little of a financial bind myself, because of taxes and stuff.

stay strong, and keep your head up

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It sucks, but dude you are 21 years old?Age 18 I was out of the house and working. At 21 I had a $40,000 a year job with no college under my belt, my own place, etc. It may sound mean ,but you need to get In gear and think about where YOU want to be and what YOU need to do. Find a steady income. You need to leave the nest bro'.

I am 30 years old and in my second year of college. It is never too late to start a new life for yourself.

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I know it's none of my business, but... You are 21, technically an adult, you can testify against your mother in devorce cort. From what you've described it sounds like your father is the more responsible parent here and deserves advantagious treatment, not the other way around.

But yeah, your situation sucks. My parrents split, luckily it wasn't as messy. He just took off with his cloths and the TV one day.

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I'd do what my friend and I always said we'd do to his dad- to the rich bitch; beat him into submission with giant dildos...
seriously though, do what euphoric said, I had a close friend go through something similar when she had a midlife crisis... sorry to hear about it though man, do your best.
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QUOTE (EuphoricBlue @ Jan 15 2008, 09:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I know it's none of my business, but... You are 21, technically an adult, you can testify against your mother in devorce cort. From what you've described it sounds like your father is the more responsible parent here and deserves advantagious treatment, not the other way around.

But yeah, your situation sucks. My parrents split, luckily it wasn't as messy. He just took off with his cloths and the TV one day.



Now heres the problem w/ testifying against your mother... Our US courts are so damn corrupt, well they could just care less about the actual "truth" when it comes to parental disputes. The only thing that judge/ magistrate is worried about is the pay check he/she will be getting and what the hell there going to have for lunch!
Beleive me, been through it w/ my parents and my mom's psyco ex husband...


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QUOTE (RFL85CRXSI @ Jan 15 2008, 09:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Now heres the problem w/ testifying against your mother... Our US courts are so damn corrupt, well they could just care less about the actual "truth" when it comes to parental disputes. The only thing that judge/ magistrate is worried about is the pay check he/she will be getting and what the hell there going to have for lunch!
Beleive me, been through it w/ my parents and my mom's psyco ex husband...


Well, yeah. I guess I am assuming that the court system actually works well enough where you are.

God knows some courts around here are useless. *cough*Traffic court*cough*

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Their problems are not your problems unless you choose to make them so. I know that sounds like a harsh thing to say, but it's the truth no matter how old you are when they split. I went through about the same thing when I was three years younger than you, and I don't know if I handled it very well - I ended up getting a job and keeping my family fed rather than going to college or striking out on my own until I was your age or older. That might have been the best choice or not, I don't know. I'd recommend you look out for your younger brothers and sisters, and let your folks take care of themselves if they can.

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Hey bro, ull pull out of it

Dont feel too bad, im in a bad money bind as well. Was in a car wreck 2 years ago, jsut now paid off the court cost back in aug, lost my job in aug. got myself into debt with a car that i dont even want anymore, have been unemployed for 6months now and still cant find a job. i was getting by on unemployment but i jsut ran out of credits so now im pretty fucked,

To make it worse, my girl jsut walked out on me, i lost my apartment (back home) i lost my car insurance (now on dads policy) and if i cant get 500 buks together by the first i wont have my car or my car insurance because i wont beable to pay my dad for them, he mite cover, but he cant cover my car payment, and to make it worse if it is towed it fucks his credit as well.......

as for pulling out of it. well i havnt gotten there and im still waiting, and still hoping for a job, sad thing is iv ran out of places to apply....

But good luck man, your not alone out there.

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believe me you arent the only one with sh*t atm....

imho i percieve (and believe) rpr is one big troublesome family (yeah were badass aswell) some members here are having trouble with relationships,money,medical problems and etc etc (you get the idea) i think everyone on here has/does have some crap in there lives but have/are somehow pulled through it

i know a certain member here (you know who you are) i wont name names but he is going through a really hard time

youll pull through somehow (i know its easier said from my side of the keyboard than done but youll pull through) its hard to do it on your own...

it may be easier for you if you find someone to talk to weither it be female,male,family, a friend, a shrink even a teacher who will somehow try help you just unload whats on your chest and maybe be able to give some advice or some comforting words...

the trouble with your family is hardly your fault (even though it may not feel/seem that way) if you keep out of it, its probably going to hurt to see the shit hit the fan and not get involved in it (i am in no way telling you to keep out) but be there for your dad he needs someone aswell biggrin.gif

(not trying to put sh*t on you or anything just showing you where im coming from here)

ive been living out of home since 15 blink.gif my mother was a B**CH to me and my stepfather an alchoholic (not that he abused me...physically) i couldnt take it anymore...school was a massacre waiting to happen... so i one day danced into school and signed out,and enrolled in tafe (another form of school) i got my year 10 there and am now going to go back and do my year 11&12...

i currently live with my long time girlfriend and her mother

its been a hard road since then (but not as hard as most) im also in a spot of trouble too when it comes to money...(wont go into details because its hardly worth mentioning)


all in all im not trying to say the generic thing (nor is anyone here) but you should be ok....its going to be a rough ride but when its over your going to look back and smile that its over and chase that perfect crx restoration project wink.gif
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QUOTE (Sad-Rex @ Jan 16 2008, 01:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey bro, ull pull out of it

Dont feel too bad, im in a bad money bind as well. Was in a car wreck 2 years ago, jsut now paid off the court cost back in aug, lost my job in aug. got myself into debt with a car that i dont even want anymore, have been unemployed for 6months now and still cant find a job. i was getting by on unemployment but i jsut ran out of credits so now im pretty fucked,

To make it worse, my girl jsut walked out on me, i lost my apartment (back home) i lost my car insurance (now on dads policy) and if i cant get 500 buks together by the first i wont have my car or my car insurance because i wont beable to pay my dad for them, he mite cover, but he cant cover my car payment, and to make it worse if it is towed it fucks his credit as well.......

as for pulling out of it. well i havnt gotten there and im still waiting, and still hoping for a job, sad thing is iv ran out of places to apply....

But good luck man, your not alone out there.




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well thanks for the help everyone.


i realize im old enough to be on my own, but my dads buisness was a big part of our family. that was my job and i made good money.


but, i have a few job oppertunitys here and there, im about to go to an interview at UPS, they have good benifits and all.


im not the only one with problems, and mine are just a drop in the bucket, but it feels good to get it off my back and im glad theres good people out there to lend a ear/sholder whatever you would call it tongue.gif


anyways, thanks for listening




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