18 replies to this topic

[slavteren]

hi, and sorry for the bad mood, but i just need to use you guys as some sort of therapy for a minute..

i'we been on sickpay for 1 1/2 year now, and finally my life seemed to get better, by starting school again, and getting a new profession, where i dont ruin my knee anymore then it already is.

i was to start monday, and the all of a sudden the city counsil called yesterday and said that there was some trouble. i saw them today, and had a loooong meeting. it turns out that the counsil have hired a new social worker only with the intention to save some money, so even that they know that it is illegal, they now stopped me going to school, and stops the sick pay by the end of the month... so next month i stand without a income, and i can't get a job because of the knee. we (me and my union) will apeal that, and we will win, since it is illegal, but in the meantim (4-6months) i will have no income, so i stand to loose my house, my cars, and whats worse: my beloved cats.

life just sucks.

edit: so if i post some crap in the near future, just ignore it, i'm not in the best mood..

[1stGenRex]

im really sorry to hear that meng! start selling us some EDM parts!!!!

seems like we are having a tough month here with a lot or RPR members...hang in there guys, the community needs you...

BTW i think its kinda cool you are worried about your cats...not many ppl think of that when they stand to loose so much, it shows how much you care 4 them!

[IfTakumiDroveACRX]

I know it sounds stupid but I can paypal you like ten bucks when i get paid... I don't have much at the moment either since i was screwed over by my bank and paypal for like $500 but I don't mind helping out someone in need! After all we are a big 'ole cyber family!

[1stGenRex]

I know it sounds stupid but I can paypal you like ten bucks when i get paid... I don't have much at the moment either since i was screwed over by my bank and paypal for like $500 but I don't mind helping out someone in need! After all we are a big 'ole cyber family!

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

i was thinking the same thing! let us know!

[IfTakumiDroveACRX]

And don't worry, some people will wonder what the hell we are thinking sending someone money when we don't even know them, well to that i say, if doing the right thing and helping someone in need only meant people we knew..... we wouldn't know many people, besides we know you didn't come on here asking for cash but that's why it works!!! You didn't ask for it so you deserve it!!!

[Screech]

That sucks.

I say start an export business. Only do the manual labor until you can find a really cheap lacky to to the work and you just manage and book the orders. EDM parts to North America would be awesome, but you could import some off the wall USDM/CDM parts for the few 1st/3rd gens out there. Though for a profit you'd have to broaden the years you export/import for beyond those of the 1st/3rd gen. If you have get a contact near the coast you can do bulk freight to a port and save money that way too, I think.

Best of luck.

[slavteren]

thanks guys, i needed some backup. please don't send money, i have had a bad enough time beeing on sickpay, and not actually ern my own money.

and yes, the cats are my one and only thing in life. loosing my cars i would be pissed over, but i could not live without my cats. they shit and piss on the floor, and if i piss them off, the almost literally flip me the finger, but i love them higher then manny people love their children.

i'd love to start my own buisness some day, that was one of the reasons to start this school too, but i would not be able to make a living by shipping edm parts allone. i had to have a monthly profit of 1500us$ just to pay my personally bills. and then some to live off, and then some for the expences from the compagny... this is a expensive shitty country..

edit: oh, and btw we are not many people in love with the old hondas... i guess less then 10 hardcore fans in the country..

[1stGenRex]

well, if you have any crx parts, let me know

[Sgt. Pepper]

Hang in there, we're here for ya. Keep us posted.

[badpenny]

Man that stinks, I am glad (for once) for unions. They will help you, too bad, in the interim, that they can't do more.


I personally am trying to figure out how to get my affairs in order, things are so hectic, I can't even take time to see the doctor after my wreck Monday.

[slavteren]

you where in a wreck? hope you AND the car are faily unhurt.. what happend?

[RARECRX]

you where in a wreck?   hope you AND the car are faily unhurt.. what happend?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I too know what you mean ,as I have been in the same predicament for the last 3 years!!! luckily my wife is a nurse, but lately with 1 income me going to school and the new baby money is a little tight lately!! hang in there things will get better trust me!! ALSO NO MORE BUYING BEER!!! LOL

[Airgazm86]

Don't worry, man. Things will get better. Everyone experiences bad times in life and we just have to be positive. Could you find a part-time job and/or move in with family or friends until your situation improves?

And like etmydst said, don't buy any more alcohol.

[down4ce]

Sorry to hear this man, best of luck with things. Just keep your chin up and wade thru the shit, you'll find your way out.

[nature223]

hi, and sorry for the bad mood, but i just need to use you guys as some sort of therapy for a minute..

i'we been on sickpay for 1 1/2 year now, and finally my life seemed to get better, by starting school again, and getting a new profession, where i dont ruin my knee anymore then it already is.

i was to start monday, and the all of a sudden the city counsil called yesterday and said that there was some trouble. i saw them today, and had a loooong meeting. it turns out that the counsil have hired a new social worker only with the intention to save some money, so even that they know that it is illegal, they now stopped me going to school, and stops the sick pay by the end of the month... so next month i stand without a income, and i can't get a job because of the knee. we (me and my union) will apeal that, and we will win, since it is illegal, but in the meantim (4-6months) i will have no income, so i stand to loose my house, my cars, and whats worse: my beloved cats.

life just sucks. 

edit: so if i post some crap in the near future, just ignore it, i'm not in the best mood..

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Dude...I feel ya man,It took OVER a year and a half,two knee operations.and a ton of foot dragging by my asshole former employer...
but their paying now..big time.
they owe me 75 WEEKS of half pay to cover the losses I instilled being fucked up and having MY knee fucked up because they were assholes forcing me to do activities and other things that fucked it up in the first place.
see if there is any other means with which to seek some form of unemployment coverage....
and GET A LAWYER..Nobody talks shit,when they know you have one on retainer....BIGTIME,amazing how friendly and helpfull assholes become when they hear your;"lawyered up"
always seek another opinion..no matter what NEVER listen to a social member employed person(AKA THE CITY WORKER)
good luck dude..you got a major thing to overcome here....and I know it sucks,it did for me,now I got some money it DOESNT make it any better....but it does help you thinking you can do anything you need too....without worrying about not having enough cash.